So you just wake up one morning straight?
Uhm... I think not!
I wished I could take the curse away, or heal from my disease the first month a felt my whole life turning upside down. I prayed, I pleaded and I hoped.
Eventually I gave in, went with the flow. Denied my faith. Looked for scriptures saying God loves me and he accepts me. Suprise! You can't change scripture!
It took me 4 years into my gay lifestyle to connect the dots and become bored in the fact that I share my bed with a woman, who is my best friend. But this relationship is nothing more than a friendship gone wrong.
It took me about 6 months to reall admit to myself that I gave up my career, my degree and my family for something which was never and will never be. First I realised this was lust mixed with friendship, secondly thing's were to difficult, nothing came easy. Seesaw of emotions and brutal fights. I became a shadow of my former self. Also obese...
Another 6 months I started admitting the truth to people close to me. I'm not gay, My God is not fine with my lifestyle! I begin making changes small ones, small beginnings. Which led me to great things!
This all was not my partners fault, it was me!
Things started to change, as if I could see. Yet I thought I am crazy. Who gives up there life only to realise you living someone elses life. Scary
So no, you don't change over night!
Everything has its time, it's pace and everything happens at the perfect moment
Be who you are! Open your eyes! Start you journey... Most difficult part is your first step!
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